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Threesome

A group of three golfers playing together, or a match format where two players alternate shots against a single player.
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Threesome has two accepted meanings in golf. (1) It commonly refers to a group of three players playing a round together, typically for pace-of-play and course management purposes. (2) In match play, a threesome is a specific format in which one side consists of two players who play a single ball by alternating strokes, competing against a single opponent who plays their own ball. This format is recognized under the Rules of Golf as a variation of match play.

How Golfers Say It

"We’ve got a threesome today."
"It’s just the three of us this round."
"They’re playing a threesome match."
"We ended up as a threesome this morning."

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Origin

The term originates from traditional match play formats in early golf, particularly in Scotland, where different player combinations were common. Over time, its usage expanded informally to describe any group of three golfers playing together, which is now the more common modern meaning.

Rules & Context

In casual and most standard play, threesome refers simply to a group of three players sharing a tee time. In formal competition, the match play version of a threesome follows specific Rules of Golf guidelines, where the two-player side alternates strokes on one ball. This format is less commonly used in modern tournaments but remains part of official match play structures.

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Neil's Take

"Most of the time, threesome just means three guys playing together. The match play version exists, but you’ll rarely see it outside formal formats."

Frequently Asked Questions

Is a threesome the same as a group of three players?

Yes, in everyday golf usage, a threesome simply means three players playing together in one group.

What is a threesome in match play?

It is a format where two players alternate shots on one ball and compete against a single player playing their own ball.

Is a threesome format commonly used today?

The group-of-three meaning is very common, but the match play format is rare and typically only seen in specific competitions.

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